Archive for January 24, 2013

How to live in the present

Written by Abe on . Posted in Online information, Online tips, Present tense

For many of us today, living in the present seem to be something that we can only dream of. The idea of being able to live in the present can in fact be something that seem to be something that can only happen in the future. We cannot seem to be able to rid ourselves of the problems brought about by the past, so how can we live in the present. And yet, it is possible to finally shake off all these problems and be able to finally live in the present. And the only way to do this is to step into the present and finally say goodbye to the past.

The first step really that would allow us to live in the present is to think in the present tense. When we do this, we learn to concentrate on the today or the moment that we are in. Basically, what makes things difficult for us to live in the present are two things, our past problems and our worries for the future. Thus in order to live in the present, we should stop thinking about the past and we should stop worrying about the future. We live in the present by experiencing what we have now and doing things that we can at the moment. Of course we should not just throw all caution to the wind just so that we can live in the present. What this means is that, for example, when we deal with people that we love, we think about them in the present tense. We forget about what they did in the past that hurt us. The pain may still be there but if we think, and not feel, about the present, we would be able to live with them easier. When it comes to the future, when we live in the present, we accept the fact that we can only do so much so worrying about the future is senseless.

Second it is important to get help in our quest to live in the present. Getting help can be as informative as it is entertaining. There are many blogging ideas about living in the present that you can read and subscribe to. The good thing about these blogs is that these blogs offer great life tips that you can follow. With blogs, they are not just online information or online tips, they are practical advice from people who have the same experiences that you do. You can also read about the comments of the other readers and share your own. You can even ask for help on certain situations. You might be surprised at how many people cares about your problem and your desire to live in the present. This is the best thing about these blogs. It is like belonging in a caring community. For more about this, go here.